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		<title>Writers&#8217; Resolutions &#8211; Make a Public Promise, Here!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 13:59:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Smedley</dc:creator>
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<p>New Year&#8217;s Resolutions are the fine porcelain vessels in which we plan to keep our better selves: they look great but are <strong>tricky to handle and broken all too easily</strong>. Yet year on year people make them, fully prepared to watch them shatter all too quickly. Now is the time of year when we fly in the face of reality to make bold, beautiful ideas, yet somehow that burning idealism in which they&#8217;re fired soon dies away. The passion cools, and by the middle of the year we&#8217;re so busy looking back that we forget we were looking forward.</p>
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<p>We make New Year&#8217;s Resolutions as a coping mechanism – a way to make sense of the vast amount of new space suddenly ahead of us; a way to give ourselves some small illusion of control and perspective over the coming year. Because imagine what you, especially you as a writer, could do in 12 months. All that potential. A vast blank space to fill with your creativity. A whole year&#8230;.just think of the stories you could tell in that time. Surely it would be criminal to waste such a generous gift?</p>
<h2>Make a Promise</h2>
<p>Perhaps the inherent problem with resolutions is that promises made to oneself are decidedly hard to keep. Therefore, our idea on Fuel Your Writing was to offer up the comments section of this article as a pulpit, if you will, for you to <strong>publicly declare</strong> your own writing resolutions for the coming year. Make that promise, here, in front of your fellow writers. Seeing your resolution written out and shared in such a public place will help to solidify it in your mind, to make the promise real, concrete, and doable.</p>
<h2>Mine?</h2>
<p>Okay, okay, if I&#8217;m asking you to share your resolutions, it&#8217;s only fair that I do the same. So, this is me, making a public promise to <strong>write some fiction</strong>! I love writing short stories, but while I do plenty of writing every day, it is a long, long time since I last wrote any fiction. But, that will change this year!</p>
<p>So, that&#8217;s mine, what&#8217;s yours!?</p>
<p><em>Please share your writing resolutions in the comments section below!</em></p>
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		<title>When The Dust Settles: Looking Back at NaNoWriMo</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 10:52:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jenn &#38; JD</dc:creator>
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<p><em>First off, a huge congratulations for any of you who completed NaNoWriMo this year! Today on Fuel Your Writing, Jenn &amp; JD look back over the month, and discover that there is more to take from it than just a 50,000 word story.</em></p>
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<h2>The Month is Over but the Ink Goes On</h2>
<p>I would like to thank all the people who supported JD and me through this wild month of writing and creativity; my husband, our close family and friends, other NaNo Writers, and of course, my cat, who never lets me write alone.</p>
<p>This was a wild month for both JD and me, and I will let JD tell his story in his own words, if he has any left. As for my experience, even after all of these years it really does not get any easier.  If anything, this year was one of the more difficult. November turned out to be a very busy month for our household. Between writing and belly dance class and two major performance events in one month, weekends and evenings were very difficult to squeeze writing time. I did not think I would make it this year.</p>
<h2>The Things That Push You</h2>
<p>What pushed me to the finish line? This year was more important than ever. If I had written these articles throughout the experience and failed, what sort of example did I set for the Fuel Your Writing readers? If, in the writing classes I lead, my students made it and I fell short, what place do I have at the head of that table? And, most important, as a parent it is an obligation to set an example of hard work, and dedication to a goal, for JD I had to make it, no matter what! In other words, <strong>other people</strong> got me through.</p>
<h2>Pressure Can Lead To Amazing Things</h2>
<p>I really do want to give extra special props to my best friend in Central New York, Jenn. This was her second <a href="http://www.nanowrino.org">NaNoWriMo</a> and for a while there it looked pretty bad. On the 29th of November she was at less than half. Somehow, the NaNoGods only know, she finished! Toward the end, she was writing over <strong>3,000 words an hour</strong>! Kudos, bella!</p>
<h2>What Now? &#8211; Wait for NaNoEdMo!</h2>
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<p>So, now what? What will you do with your NaNo Novel now that the deed is done? <a href="https://www.createspace.com/">CreateSpace</a> has that epic offer to see your work in print, which is a real treat, and a great way to see if you are ready for the next step as a writer. It is not just about writing the story, the hard work comes after the words are on the page.</p>
<p>For now, print out your NaNo Novel &#8211; finished or not, print and frame that winner certificate, set that masterpiece aside and <strong>let it settle for a time</strong>. March marks <a href="http://www.nanoedmo.net/xoops2/">NaNoEdMo</a>, and I will be right there with you if you decide to make that manuscript bleed. If this was just a test of your writing skill and now you hope it will never see the light of day, maybe a different challenge is for you; <a href="http://scriptfrenzy.org/">Script Frenzy</a> is in April, and JD and I are both itching to get onto that business too!</p>
<p>See you soon NaNo Heros and Fuel Your Writing Followers! It was a great month!</p>
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<h2>JD’s Story Continues</h2>
<p>Yes it is my story. Hello magnificent writers! Nanowrimo ended but does that mean you’re finished? Not the slightest. I agree with my mom, the best bet is packing it away and forgetting about it, perhaps until March and NaNoEdMo. You could even use it as the basis of your Script Frenzy script! Whatever you do make the most of it and live the writers dream!</p>
<p>You may think <strong>“my story isn’t good enough for the public</strong>, I need this, not that.” But take a look at a picture of yourself, what is the first things you notice? Most likely, it&#8217;s <strong>the bad stuff</strong>, because you know the ways you want to make it better. Others don’t know. Like a dance, if no one knows the dance, no one knows you messed up. So if no one knows what you really wanted then you have to go with the flow. You may edit the story in March, or sooner, whenever you feel the necessary time comes. No matter what comes and no matter what happens, <strong>your story matters</strong>.</p>
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<p><em>Thank you very much to Jenn and JD for sharing their NaNoWriMo experience with us this year! We hope everyone who took part had an awesome month, please let us know how it went in the comments!</em></p>
<p><em>Images courtesy of</em> <a href="http://www.nanowrimo.org">NaNoWriMo</a> <em>and</em></p>
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		<title>Almost There! &#8211; The NaNoWriMo Home Stretch</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 11:10:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jenn &#38; JD</dc:creator>
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<p><em>With just two days to go in <a href="http://www.nanowrimo.org">NaNoWriMo</a> 2011, JD and Jenn share their thoughts on the experience, before getting their heads down for the finish line.</em></p>
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<h2>JD Sees the Finish Line on the Horizon</h2>
<p>Hello there! It is the final stretch and we will soon reach the finish. So start finalizing your stories and make haste if you’re a bit behind! For now never give up on yourself because if you do you&#8217;re just going to be outpaced in the race. Keep your fingers moving for the final days of the NaNoWriMo competition!</p>
<p>I have been wondering how I should end or if the beginning is too sweet and simple so this has been a very long stretch of confusion and fright among what my story will be like to others. As this is my first year of NaNoWriMo I&#8217;m hoping nothing will go wrong, but something may anyway. <strong>But you just have to go with it</strong>. My computer could explode for all I know so have a great time and don’t lose sight of your goal!</p>
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<h2>Jenn Sees a New Day Rising</h2>
<p>As JD wrote, here we are, in the home stretch. I hope your month overflowed with creative moments and bursts of literary inspiration! I really did not feel that this was my year <strong>until the very end</strong>. Every sentence was like pulling teeth, every day was drudgery. My inner editor haunted every paragraph and I am pretty sure I still don’t have anything legitimately resembling a plot.</p>
<p>Towards the end, things are finally beginning to fall into place and I may actually make it to the finish line. This year wasn’t really about the novel writing though, now that I think on it. This was about <strong>sharing the adventure with JD</strong>. It is about his story, about the kid that told his friends every November that his mom is writing this month so “keep quiet” or “let’s play somewhere other than my house”. That kid, this year, told his friends that <strong>he</strong> is the one writing the novel.</p>
<h2>Your Story</h2>
<p>Again, I really hope your November was so much better than mine was. As we roll into the finish line, if you hit 50K or not, what it&#8217;s really about is your story, not just the one you are putting on paper/screen, but <strong>the one you lived</strong> this wild month. Congratulations NaNo heroes!</p>
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<p><em>Have you made it to your goal yet, or are you panicking now? Good luck for all those writers scribbling furiously over the next two days!</em></p>
<p><em>Image courtesy of</em> <a href="http://www.nanowrimo.org">NaNoWriMo</a>.</p>
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		<title>One Week To Go! &#8211; Are You Slowing or Speeding Up?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 08:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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<h2>The Old Tortoise is Slowing Down</h2>
<p>Here we are in the final stretch! I hope everyone is doing much better than I am. With Thanksgiving this Thursday and busy weekends, I will have to do some mad dashes to make it to the finish line. Fortunately, I am not a fan of Black Friday, so I will be using the day to <strong>type ‘til I drop</strong>. A few years back I tried for 100K in the month of November, I hope to call upon that energy now.</p>
<h2>Writing Around Life</h2>
<p>There have been good days and bad, and there have been distractions. A lot of you will be familiar with <strong>&#8220;life&#8221; getting in the way</strong> of your writing. In the past couple years I have had access to a friend’s cabin in Northern Arizona, which would have been nice to get away from distractions, but it did not work out this year. So, how is your story treating you?  Where have you found a haven to hide? Or, are you in a mad dash trying to find time and inspiration between work, school, and family obligations?</p>
<p>I want to thank my writing students for displaying amazing skill and dedication through this adventure; all of them inspire me; helping them to succeed means as much to me as getting to the finish line myself. Write on until the end my friends!<br />
Now please excuse me, I have some serious writing to do!  Yikes!</p>
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<h2>The Hare Charges on!</h2>
<p>We are in the final week of writing and time is scrambling around. “What should we do next, does this seem right?” these questions come up more frequently as you want it to be better than your writer buddies. We could be on third base hoping for the batter not to fail to make it to home but don’t really know what could actually happen.</p>
<p>You may find that your characters are either talking more in code or just not talking very much at all. But all you can do now is keep your head straight and get your writing in gear for the final week remaining. Have fun and don’t lose sight of your goal!</p>
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<p><em>So, as you enter the last week of NaNoWriMo, how are you feeling? Please share with us how your progress is going in the comments section below!</em></p>
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		<title>Half Way Through #NaNoWriMo: Don&#8217;t Lock Yourself Up!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 10:53:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jenn &#38; JD</dc:creator>
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<p>So, we&#8217;ve reached the midway point of November, which means the midway point of <a href="http://www.nanowrimo.org">NaNoWriMo</a>! This week, <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/easalle">Jenn</a> and her son JD discuss the benefits of getting out and meeting other writers, instead of locking yourself away to write. </p>
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<h2>Connecting with Writers</h2>
<h3>Jenn</h3>
<p>JD and I are keeping fair pace with our word count. We decided to reward our achievements with an outing. We visited the Glendale Public Library for a write-in lead by Pheonix ML (Municipal Liaison &#8211; volunteers who organize NaNo groups in their hometowns) <a href="http://www.nanowrimo.org/es/user/717299">Angela</a>. Angela has lots of games and prizes for the troops! JD and I each won a pack of candy for most words in ten minutes. She introduced us to another word count game where we drew popsicle sticks to decide how many words to write in fifteen minutes. JD will tell you how he did on that one too. I am pretty sure the words I wrote in the word-sprint exercises will need heavy editing, but it was a blast. </p>
<p>I intend to implement the popsicle sticks at the next writing group in my studio. It was a nice change of pace to be among writers other than those I am familiar with and I really think JD needed to see how other NaNoWriMo participants were handling the challenge. It may have been a bit awkward considering all of the write-in attendees were female and college-age and up! I hope to make it to at least one more write-in before the month is out so JD has another chance to see a more varied demographic. I had a blast with the ladies though, thank you! It was interesting to hear all the different story ideas.</p>
<p>I really want to use this article to thank all of the MLs out there in NaNoLand too.  Angela is a great example. She was welcoming, prepared, enthusiastic and imaginative. I hope all areas have MLs the live up to the standard Angela set. Thank you for the awesome NaNoWriMo stickers, the creative prizes and treating all the writers, of all ages and levels with respect.  Thank you Angela and all MLs!</p>
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<h2>Discovering Write-Ins</h2>
<h3>JD</h3>
<p>Hello all and many! I’ve discovered my first write-in at a library front consisting of six people involved and a splendid time it was! There were two sorts of “games” that involved speed-writing, which were fantastic considering I won both by hand and I have no access to a laptop! The first part was how many words you could write in ten minutes which I scored 213. The second game was you pick a stick of difficulty, green was easy, yellow was mid range, so forth; I picked green, a target of 375 words in fifteen minutes &#8211; I wrote 393!</p>
<p>Libraries are great places to pour out emotion into your writing, to sit with the books all around staring at you and to feel around in the silence for the words. It was a great time and I would recommend it for anyone who is struggling to get through you writing.</p>
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<p>How are you all getting on with your <a href="http://www.nanowrimo.org">NaNoWriMo</a> novels this year? Please let us know what you are writing, and how you&#8217;re getting on, in the comments below!</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 10:11:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jenn &#38; JD</dc:creator>
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<p>As we enter the second week of November, writers across the world are deep into their <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/easalle">NaNoWriMo</a> novels. <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/easalle">Jenn Czep</a> and her son, JD, whose progress we are following, share with us their experiences so far.</p>
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<h2>JD Discovers His Inner Editor</h2>
<p>As of late, I have been thinking to myself <em>“should I have so much dialogue?”</em> or <em>“what will happen if this does or doesn’t happen?”</em> and things of that sort. I have been asking around if this sentence is good or not and a realization got humble-jumbled in my head saying <strong>it’s always good if you think it’s good</strong> &#8211; the same thing with art. </p>
<p>Writing is the figurative or factual art of learning and imagination. Can an elephant be pink and go on an adventure with a green rhinoceros? Of course it can &#8211; if you think of some wacky way to make that work! </p>
<p>Have fun for the next three weeks of total insanity!</p>
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<h2>Jenn Tries to Turn Hers Off</h2>
<p>While JD is just discovering his inner editor, I am finding that in my first week of NaNoWriMo, mine will not turn off. </p>
<p>Ten years ago, NaNoWriMo was an adventure like nothing I had attempted before. I was so busy having <strong>fun</strong> with the challenge, <strong>editing was furthest from my mind</strong>. But this past week, after years of rewriting pieces for public consumption, that editor voice just will not shut up.</p>
<p>Staring at that first sentence, and deleting it a half a dozen times, I finally realized, this part of the writing process is supposed to be about <strong>breaking new ground</strong>, not building the perfect empire. </p>
<p>Music has been my answer, I&#8217;ve cranked up the classical and am now just riding the emotions through each scene. </p>
<p>Experienced writers are just as susceptible as new ones to the fear of rejection. Veterans may even have a more difficult time reclaiming the innocence of that first romance with words. Work hard this month, enjoy the honeymoon and come back and work out the deeper issues in March. To every level, NaNoWriMo is about acceptance, camaraderie of adventure, the thrill of chasing plot bunnies; tell that inner editor to take a month off. </p>
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<p>How are you all getting on with your <a href="http://www.nanowrimo.org">NaNoWriMo</a> novels this year? Please let us know what you are writing, and how you&#8217;re getting on, in the comments below!</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 11:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>MJ Henry</dc:creator>
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<p><em>Today, MJ Henry takes us through her writing life, and the different things that have motivated her to write, and asks the same question of you&#8230;</em></p>
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<p>When I was a kid, growing up in a small, Texas town, I found that when I wrote my &#8220;stories&#8221;, I would have a large audience on the playground, any day after lunch, just by bringing my most recent chapter to read. I guess I really liked the feeling of importance. More than that, I really liked the feeling I got while I was putting my thoughts on paper. This phenomenon continued through junior high school and high school. I would write and share; but I never saved anything.</p>
<h2>Growing</h2>
<p>How I wish I still had those early stories to read now. What a difference I would see; what growth I would identify. Those early stories, I remember, were along the lines of the Nancy Drew mysteries. I think I saw myself as a great mystery writer. By the time I was in high school, I think I had graduated into some of the stranger stories similar to what I write now.</p>
<p>After I became an adult, I only remember writing a few more things. I wrote one story based on a recurring nightmare I had as a child. I wrote this at the suggestion of a counselor. Through the writing of this story and some sketches I did to illustrate it, I was able to write my way through the pains of my childhood. Later, after the earliest Star Wars movies and the first Star Trek movie came out, I wrote a sci-fi for my kids. Again, I had an audience to listen as each chapter emerged. I found it to be a way to draw my kids and me closer together.</p>
<h2>Life in the Way?</h2>
<p>After that, I put my writing aside for a very long time. Life got in the way, as it always seems to do. I told myself I didn&#8217;t have time to write. That, however, would have been the best time of all to write. When your kids are growing up there are always so many funny things and so many sweet things that they do. Now I have to rely on a faulty memory to get them down on paper; and there are a few things that I feel are worth doing just that. I only hope that I can remember the details well enough to turn them into stories, before I can no longer remember.</p>
<p>Now, here I am, retired at sixty-one and needing something to fill my time. I went the Facebook virtual farming route. There is just so much virtual farming a person can do. It&#8217;s not like you&#8217;re going to take your virtual veggies and make a virtual salad, so you can invite all your virtual friends to a virtual feast after virtual church. After a while it gets virtually boring.</p>
<h2>Looking Back</h2>
<p>So, why do I write? Because I am a virtual nut case? Okay; maybe I&#8217;m just a little obsessive and somewhat creative. Writing is something that I have been storing up inside of me for a number of years. I stored it so long that the silos of my heart and mind were about to burst open and spill all the grain it had stored up onto a virtual field; I like to think it is a field of Texas bluebonnets. These silos are splitting at the seams now and the stories are steadily seeping out. It&#8217;s all that I can do to scoop them up and pour them out onto my laptop.</p>
<h2>Why Do You Write?</h2>
<p>Go on, ask yourself this question. What makes you put things on paper? It can often be quite a hard question to answer, but it is an important one. We should all, at some point, take a look at ourselves to find out what really motivates us to write, to better understand our own writing. Is it something that you have always done? If you were told that you could never write another thing; what would you do?</p>
<p><em>Please share your feelings, and the reasons why you write, in the comments section below!</em></p>
<p><em>Image courtesy of</em> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/alldis/42958716/">Amy Alldis</a>.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Christopher Jackson</dc:creator>
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<p>At Fuel Your Writing, we try to bring you all the best advice, tips, inspiration and interesting articles to give you what you need to, literally, fuel your own writing endeavours, whatever they may be. </p>
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<p>Today we are launching a fortnightly column where you, the FYW community, will have the chance to email us with your writing questions &#8211; anything from productivity to goal setting, from time management to good writing practices. They will be answered by our newest regular writer, professional writing coach Cynthia Morris.</p>
<h2>So, What Would You Like to Know?</h2>
<p>My hope is that this column will help to increase the interactivity of Fuel Your Writing, and allow you all to engage with us in a deeper way and to directly ask the questions that <strong>you</strong> want answering. We invite you to share your burning issues, problems that you are facing in your writing process. The chances are great that a lot of other members of the Fuel Your Writing community are dealing with the same issues, and by answering your questions we hope to help everyone to become better writers. </p>
<p>Please &#8211; get in touch! Send your questions and the issues that you would like discussed, either in the comments of this post or emailed to us at <a href="mailto:chris@fuelyourwriting.com">Fuel Your Writing</a>. </p>
<p>We look forward to helping you Save Your Writing!</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 11:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cynthia  Morris</dc:creator>
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<blockquote><p>What makes you think you can write a book? Your own show – are you kidding?! Phht!!</p></blockquote>
<p>You’ve heard this kind of derisive commentary. Not from others – from inside your own mind. It’s inevitable. When you take action toward your dreams, your fears and the voice of your inner critic expand in proportion to your passion. </p>
<p>The inner critic – or gremlin, as coaches call it – presents very convincing arguments. So convincing that you may believe its negativity and squelch your creativity as a result of its haranguing. To be a successful creative, you need to master this negative voice. </p>
<p>Gremlin wrestling is the first order of business with my clients. They’re always surprised that after years of ineffectual battle with the critic, the best defense against the gremlin is to befriend it. </p>
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<h2>That Jerk = My Friend?</h2>
<p>I know. It seems odd to buddy up with the bully that has belittled you for years. But this simple approach to living with your inner critic can empower you to reach your creative goals with less struggle. Here’s how. </p>
<p>Isolate your gremlin. Pay attention to it as a distinct part of you. On a daily basis, notice what it says, the language it uses, and what provokes its commentary. </p>
<p>I liken this to inviting your gremlin out from the wings onstage, and giving it the mic. It’s on the scene anyway, might as well give it center stage to better hear what it’s contributing.</p>
<p>Once you’ve separated it as one perspective and not the Truth, get to know it. </p>
<h2>Who Is Your Inner Critic?</h2>
<p>Write about it. Set a timer for fifteen minutes and do a character sketch as if for a story. Explore your gremlin’s world. Use these prompts:</p>
<li>What does it look like?</li>
<li>Where does it live?</li>
<li>What does it eat?</li>
<li>What are some of its favorite expressions?</li>
<li>Is it a he, a she, or something else?</li>
<li>What is its name?</li>
<p>Get a picture of it. Do a drawing, a painting, perhaps even a song describing your gremlin. Choose whatever medium makes this playful yet meaningful.</p>
<p>What did you learn or notice from doing this exercise? Write down any insights you’ve gotten from this.  </p>
<h2>Living With This Monster In a New Way</h2>
<p>Okay, so now you have a distinct picture of your critic and you’ve probably noticed how entrenched he is in your psyche. How do you wrestle control from this downer? Try these new perspectives. </p>
<li><strong>Be dispassionate</strong></li>
<p>This part of you is smart, wily, knows your sensitive spots, plus seems to always assert the logical voice of ‘reality&#8217;. Best to dispassionately observe its story rather than try to argue that yes, you are a good writer. </p>
<li><strong>Use humor</strong></li>
<p>When your critical voice pipes up, stay light. Humor helps you dodge the heavy messages your gremlin broadcasts in your mind.</p>
<li><strong>Be grateful</strong></li>
<p>Thank the gremlin. Thank it for its input and keep going. I like to say things like: “Thank you for your input. And while I may be a fat, un-stylish loser, I am still going to the party. And I’m going to have fun.”</p>
<p>These strategies help cope with the gremlin, and the following approach makes a truly lasting impact for my clients. </p>
<h2>Befriend Your Gremlin</h2>
<p>Your critic now has its own discrete place in your psyche, and you feel a little less dominated by its negativity. Still, it insists on contributing whenever you take a creative risk. Rather than trying to muzzle your gremlin, enroll its help. </p>
<p>Ask your gremlin these questions and write your answers. </p>
<li>What do you want for me?</li>
<li>How can you help me?</li>
<p>Please use these specific questions. A client once tweaked the question (creative people often need to add their own twist!) but didn’t get satisfactory results. I pointed her back to the original questions, and she was amazed at the empowering new perspective she received from her answers.  </p>
<p>These exercises might seem simple, or silly, even. But complex problems are often solved by simple solutions. Reduce creative resistance by dropping the struggle with your inner critic. Befriend it instead for more joyful and easy creativity.</p>
<p>For more on managing your inner critic, see Rick Carson’s <a href="http://tamingyourgremlin.com/">Taming Your Gremlin</a>. </p>
<p><em>How does your gremlin bug you? Have you learned to live with him/her/it? Are they your best friend already?! Please share your thoughts and feedback in the comments below!</em></p>
<p><em>Image courtesy of</em> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/inti/3128443786/">Inti</a>.</p>
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		<title>Question: What Are You Reading?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2011 10:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher Jackson</dc:creator>
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<blockquote><p>If you want to be a writer, you must do two things above all others: read a lot and write a lot. &#8211; Stephen King</p></blockquote>
<p>Sometimes I think we forget that reading, as well as actually writing, is one of the fundamental skills needed to write well. Besides being an incredibly enjoyable and rewarding pastime (it is my own belief that we grow as a person with every book we read, whether it is good or bad), reading is the diet of a writer.</p>
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<p>From everything that you read, be it classics, crime, romance, graphic novels, science-fiction, horror, or anything else for that matter, there is something to take to improve your writing. This can be that you learn of something to do, and it can be even about learning what <strong>not</strong> to do. If you&#8217;ve just read a book and you hated it or found it hard to read, have a look at <em>why</em> you didn&#8217;t like it. And then avoid doing that thing in your own work.</p>
<p>With this post, I had thought of going through my recently read books and talking about how I felt they had helped me improve and develop my writing. However, I think it would be much more interesting, and in the end more helpful, if I threw the floor open to you all. So, I&#8217;d like to ask you the question&#8230;</p>
<h2>What Are You Reading?</h2>
<p>What are you reading right now? Or what have you just read? This doesn&#8217;t have to be a book that you love, as I said above you might be really struggling with this book, but that in itself will be telling you about something you perhaps shouldn&#8217;t be doing in your writing. I&#8217;d like you all in the comments below to share <strong>what you are writing and how it helps your own writing</strong>. It&#8217;s as simple as that. I&#8217;m sure we can build up a fantastic collection of useful insights and advice on how we can better our writing, and it will be interesting to see where they come from. I also hope that it will show how important it is for us as writers to indulge and immerse ourselves in our reading, and not to neglect it. Sometimes it may feel like we are wasting time by just reading, but it really is time well spent.</p>
<p>So, to get the ball rolling, here we go:</p>
<h2>What Am I Reading?</h2>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4778" title="IMG00704-20110608-1114" src="http://www.fuelyourwriting.com/files/IMG00704-20110608-1114-600x450.jpg" alt="IMG00704-20110608-1114" width="288" height="216" />Well, I&#8217;ve just finished Mary Shelley&#8217;s <em>Frankenstein</em>. I&#8217;d never actually read it before, but of course I knew what a masterpiece it is considered, and I&#8217;m obviously aware of its impact on literature and the horror genre. After reading it, I am not at all surprised at the impact it had. It really is a wonderfully written, well-realised story on what it means to be human, the thirst for knowledge and it is just a brilliant tale of both horror and, in fact, probably one of the first examples of science fiction. I loved it, as I expected I would.</p>
<h2>What Did I Learn From It?</h2>
<p>Reading masterful writing like that in <em>Frankenstein</em> is always an absolute joy, and it has really inspired me to work hard at my writing. If someone such as Shelley can write such an important, powerful novel at the tender age of nineteen, then why can&#8217;t I? Why can&#8217;t you?</p>
<p>Apart from the inspiration, something else that I took from <em>Frankenstein</em> was its interesting narrative structure. It begins with letters sent by a man who rescues Victor Frankenstein from the ice, and it is to this man that Victor then recounts what has happened. In this way the story is told in a very direct manner, and it made me the reader feel as though this tale is being told personally to me. Also, Shelley&#8217;s decision to write several chapters from the monster&#8217;s point-of-view was, at the time, revolutionary, and brings a powerful perspective to the novel.</p>
<h2>So&#8230; Please Share Your Thoughts!</h2>
<p>Please let us know what you are reading, and how the writing has helped you develop your own skills, in the comments below. I&#8217;m really looking forward to see what you&#8217;re all reading and the skills you&#8217;re learning!</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2011 10:27:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Smedley</dc:creator>
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<p>Do you know what Thomas Jefferson Snodgrass, Samuel Langhorne Clemens, Louis de Conte, and Mark Twain have in common? You may well do, because they&#8217;re all the same man. Samuel Clemens, writer and wit, was a prodigious user of pen names, but have you ever thought why? In fact, why do any authors spend years of their life crafting their novels, only to slap another name on them?</p>
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<p>Nom de plume, alias, pseudonym, literary double&#8230;there are a lot of synonyms out there for the act of writing under a different name, and just as many reasons for using one. Back in the days of tall hats, gaslights, and institutionalised sexism there was a reason for women like Charlotte Bronte and Mary Ann Evans to assume a pen name, but these days such bars to entry don&#8217;t exist. Anyone, male or female, can write a book, so by all rights pen names should be a historical hangover. Yet writers of both sexes still love to use them.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s look at just some of the many reasons why&#8230;</p>
<h2>All in a Name</h2>
<p>If your name is Thelonius Q. Hornswaggle you may not like the way your name looks on the top of a manuscript. Or if your name is one shared by thousands and thousands of others, like John Smith, you might think you need something less normal so that you stand out. But you don&#8217;t want a name to stand out too much: if you happen to share the same name as a celebrity or another author it&#8217;s probably best to assume a nom de plume, otherwise you run the risk of being overshadowed or misleading people &#8211;  that&#8217;s why there aren&#8217;t any authors called Brad Pitt.</p>
<h2>Type of Book</h2>
<p>If you&#8217;re writing fantasy or a period book having an appropriate pen name may help to the tone of the whole book. Western novelist Zane Gray felt &#8216;Zane&#8217; was more in keeping with the style of his genre than with his real name, Pearl. Let&#8217;s say you&#8217;ve written a crime drama set in the dank and fetid backstreets of Elizabethan London. Using a name like Erasmus Olimander not only looks cool on a manuscript/dust jacket, but adds to the atmosphere and mystery of the book. Going even further, the name can actually be a part of the story, for example if you&#8217;re writing a fictional biography or autobiography, like Lemony Snicket.</p>
<p>On the topic of style, while anyone of any sex can write any style of book, a trip to your bookshop will show you that certain styles are dominated by certain genders. Books about war and spying and fighting off crocodiles with a machete are mostly written by male authors, while female authors dominate the expansive romance section (I refuse to use the modern term &#8216;chick-lit&#8217; &#8211; no one comes off well in that description). So if you&#8217;re a chap who&#8217;s written a great romance story you might feel a little conspicuous putting a male name on it. There&#8217;s no reason you should of course, however you might feel that a male name atop <em>&#8216;The Ladies of Lily Cottage&#8217;</em> will adversely affect your chances of it being picked up by a publisher or a reader.</p>
<h2>It&#8217;s a Marketing Thing</h2>
<p>If you write across a wide range of genres or write both fiction and non-fiction then you or your publisher may decide it&#8217;s best to employ a pen name for some of the things you write. This is especially important with an author who writes both fiction and non-fiction. Charles Dodgson, author of mathematics textbooks such as <em>&#8216;A Syllabus of Plane Algebraic Geometry&#8217;</em>, wrote some distinctly algebra-free books that you might have heard of under the name Lewis Carroll.</p>
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<p>Sci-fi novelist Iain M. Banks is probably the most famous modern day example of an author writing under two names, keeping the &#8216;M&#8217; in his name for all his sci-fi novels, and dropping it to become just Iain Banks for his &#8216;mainstream&#8217; works. Incidentally, the only reason he had to drop the &#8216;M&#8217; from his name in the first place was because unbelievably his publishers thought it &#8216;too fussy&#8217; for his first novel. Once he started selling books that soon changed. It&#8217;s not the only time a publisher has asked an author to use a pen name for reasons that smack of profit rather than clarity. Believe it or not, Stephen King was forced to write under the pen name Richard Bachmann by his publishers, because they felt the public would not buy more than one novel from an author in a single year. They were soon proved very, very wrong.</p>
<h2>You&#8217;re Scared</h2>
<p>Perhaps the book you&#8217;re writing is an expose that would get you into trouble. Maybe you feel that writing under a pseudonym will make receiving rejection letters that little bit less hard to take personally because it&#8217;s your literary alter-ego taking the criticism/rejection and not your name atop the dreaded &#8216;thanks for your interest&#8217; boilerplate. Both are really good reasons.</p>
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<p>A handful of writers use a nom de plume because they feel being a writer will affect their chances of employment when going for a job. They think that if a prospective boss looks up your name on line and sees you&#8217;re a writer then they may think you&#8217;ll just pack in the job and leave should your career take-off. Personally I find this completely unlikely, and if you think this has ever happened to you then you probably need a better CV, not a nom de plume. C.S. Lewis did publish poetry under the pseudonym Clive Hamilton in order to avoid damaging his reputation as an Oxford don, although I still really don&#8217;t know why he felt the need to when he had made his career writing about a talking magic Lion.</p>
<h2>It&#8217;s Cool!</h2>
<p>Everyone likes to have a secret, and the idea of having a hidden literary identity is about as close to being Batman as you&#8217;ll ever get. Plus it&#8217;s fun coming up with your own alias, especially if you manage to conceal it in an ana form. “Rory Bleedstem”. See? I just did it there, and what fun it was. Go on, give it a go. You don&#8217;t have to use it, but coming up with cool new names is a good exercise for a budding author, and you can always put them in your novel. That&#8217;s assuming you want people to know it&#8217;s your novel&#8230;</p>
<p><em>If you use or have ever used a pen name I&#8217;d love to hear why you used one and whether you felt it helped/hindered you in any way. Get in touch in the comments below!</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2010 11:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sarah  Van Den Bosch</dc:creator>
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<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4109" title="bucketlist" src="http://www.fuelyourwriting.com/files/bucketlist.jpg" alt="bucketlist" width="199" height="300" />Recently, I’ve undergone the surprisingly daunting task of creating a “Bucket List”, 100 things I’d like to accomplish before I die. My list contains a bevy of goals that will hopefully enrich my life. I’ve got the lofty ones like, “meet Stephen King” and the slightly more realistic, “learn to play poker.” As I gloss over my multitude, I notice how many of my to-dos are writing-related in some way.</p>
<p>My Bucket List actually says a lot about me as a writer. There are things like, “attend a writer’s conference” and “get paid for my writing” and, most obviously, “publish a novel”. From these three things alone, I can glean what I hope to do in terms of building my craft, growing professionally and my ultimate wish for my writing, to see it en masse in book form. From the 30-some-odd things on my list regarding writing, I have a basic outline of what I need to be doing to be the best possible writer I can be and I didn’t even know I was doing it!</p>
<h2>Define Your Direction</h2>
<p>Creating a “Bucket List” could be just the thing to help you define the direction in which you hope to see your writing career headed. If you work with writing in a professional capacity, what types of things might be on your list? Is there a company you’ve been itching to work with or a class you think you might get some good out of? Perhaps, “start my own business” is something that’s on your list. Maybe if you’re a recent grad or new to writing as a profession things like “build a client base” or “improve networking skills” might be things that show up. Keep in mind, this list is meant to encompass the rest of your life so think in the long term. Put things down that you are comfortable not getting around to for five or maybe ten years. Writing is something that one is constantly working on so try and see this as an exercise in where you would like to be.</p>
<h2>Make Writing Part of Your Life</h2>
<p>Don’t be so quick to lessen the value of the non-writing entries on the list, either. What is written is often the product of life experience. Trying new things and seeing different places not only enriches your life but amps up your writing.So go ahead and “participate in a hot dog eating contest” &#8211; you never know what kind of story can come out of it!</p>
<h2>Get Motivated</h2>
<p>I think what’s most interesting in creating a list like this, is how it has the power to motivate. They are no longer just ideas or desires tucked away in the back corners of your mind but tangible things, things you can refer to in order to keep you on task. I can skim over my list and see something like, “produce a total of 300 short stories” and that provides me with the drive to start writing, to keep going and to stay on track with my craft. That’s really what’s important, isn’t it? If you’re a writer, you need to write and a “Bucket List” may be just the kick in the pants you need to make that happen.</p>
<p><em>What&#8217;s on </em>your<em> Bucket List? Please let us know your writing, and life, goals, in the comments below!</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Oct 2010 11:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher Rice</dc:creator>
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<p style="text-align: left;">It&#8217;s not a secret anymore &#8212; making mistakes is simply a part of life. I make mistakes, you make mistakes, pros make mistakes &#8230; we all make mistakes.</p>
<p><strong>To most of us, making a mistake as a writer is a sign of failure.</strong></p>
<p>If that&#8217;s the case, then failure is the only option &#8212; because it&#8217;s from our mistakes that we do our most important learning.</p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: normal;">Open Up To Failure</span></h2>
<p>I spent a few years struggling to write a good story &#8212; I wrote draft after draft, abandoned  story after story, and racked my brain in order to avoid failing as a writer. I wanted to succeed and be good and do something incredible, so I was set on writing the best story possible &#8230;</p>
<p>During that time, I failed.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t fail to write a good story &#8230; I failed to <em>write</em> <em>a story </em>all together.</p>
<p>I wasn&#8217;t open to learning from failure, so I became obsessed with getting it right, not getting it written. Because of this, I merely struggled with myself. Sure, I was reading a lot about writing and learning a little here and there, but there&#8217;s no greater knowledge you can achieve than that from your own writing &#8230; because like life, we learn from our mistakes until we no longer make them.</p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: normal;">Open Up To Learning</span></h2>
<p>While many writers might shutter or balk at the idea of opening themselves up to failure, it&#8217;s not nearly as bad as it sounds. Opening up to failure does not mean you will fail &#8230; it merely means you will make mistakes. As soon as you can acknowledge this, the sooner you can open up to learning from your own experience, which in most cases trump what you learn from books.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: normal;"><strong>I Promised You 10 Reasons Why You Should Fail, But Instead I&#8217;m Giving You An Assignment</strong></span></p>
<p>At this point I would normally reveal the 10 Reasons Why You Should Fail as promised in the title of this post, but I think you&#8217;ll get more out of this idea if you actually give it a try.</p>
<p>Whether you&#8217;re open to failure or not, you can gain something from this exercise, so give it a shot &#8230; it&#8217;s demanding, but I promise it&#8217;ll be worth it.</p>
<p>All you have to do is write.</p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: normal;">Write 10 pages of a story.</span></h2>
<p>The idea behind this assignment is not to write a good story &#8230; the idea behind this assignment is to fail.</p>
<p><strong>Check back for part 2 in this series for the 10 Reasons Why You Should Fail for further reading.</strong></p>
<p><em>Voice your thoughts on the topic of learning form your own experience, making mistakes in life and as a writer, and the struggle with perfectionism.</em></p>
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		<title>Where to Find Inspiration For Your Novel</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 11:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Seth Frederiksen</dc:creator>
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<p>There are essentially four sources to find inspiration for a novel when you are brainstorming scenes and the plot, as well as further changes and developments once you begin writing the work. They are:</p>
<ul>
<li>Your Environment</li>
<li>The Current Social Climate</li>
<li>Past Events in World History</li>
<li>Other facets of artistic culture</li>
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<h2>Environment</h2>
<p>For the most part, your environment is useful in creating the environment that your story will take place in. J.R.R Tolkien used the English countryside for his  <em>Lord of the Rings</em> trilogy, as well as other works within the Middle Earth universe. Christopher Paolini used the scenery of Montana to help write the <em>Eragon</em> series. And authors such as Ayn Rand and Karl Marx used the industrial cities they lived in to write their own works, though both had different opinions on how they viewed their respective cities.</p>
<h2>Social Climate</h2>
<p>You can also use the social climate that you live in to inspire your stories. George Orwell used the rise of Socialism to write <em>Animal Farm</em> and later <em>1984</em>, to tell people about the possible threats that pure Socialism could have on the population. And Arthur Miller used the McArthy hearings and reinterpreted them as the Salem Witch trials when he wrote the play, <em>The Crucible</em>. In most cases, these authors tried to tell us what was happening in our world, and to change these situations, without having to climb on top of a soap-box or podium to do so.</p>
<h2>History</h2>
<p>Another viable source to consider would be past events that occur in our history. Again looking back to the <em>Lord of The Rings</em>, Tolkien used the First and Second World Wars and transformed them into a fantasy-themed tale to remind use of how the latter conflict came into being. <em>The Red Badge of Courage</em> was based during the Civil War, though it never really specified which battle it was covering. Both works exhibited the need to face obstacles and dangers, while also showing how such institutions of death should be used as a last resort to maintain peace and order.</p>
<h2>Art</h2>
<p>Finally, and this probably the best form of inspiration, is through outside forms of art. While one could use other novels, I’d advise not to do that. First, your book runs the risk of repeating the other author’s storyline, and if the author still has copyright, you might have a legal problem on your hands. Second, it never hurts to try and keep your story as original as possible, which is somewhat compromised when you use other novels to find your own inspiration. Writing style however, is a different matter, but we’re not talking about that right now.</p>
<p>Using paintings, pictures, movies, poems are good ways to get a basic idea of what your novel would be about. And it helps when you use subjects that do not reside in the same genre as your work. When you don’t rely on historical novels to write an historical novel, the works tends to find its own unique voice. Looking at suspense, horror, and (depending on the plot) romance, can help build your story.</p>
<p>And with the advent of the internet, it is even easier to find and explore these artistic worlds to help you find that one piece of culture, or history, to bring your story from the subconscious and onto the page for all to enjoy.</p>
<p><em>Where do you find inspiration? Please share your thoughts an ideas in the comments below?</em></p>
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		<title>Are You Too Confident About Your Writing?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Sep 2010 09:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suzannah Freeman</dc:creator>
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<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3973" title="cc_confident_woman_" src="http://www.fuelyourwriting.com/files/cc_confident_woman_.jpg" alt="cc_confident_woman_" width="300" height="433" />Have you ever noticed how some writers are totally confident about their abilities as writers, while others struggle every day with whether or not they&#8217;re good enough to make it?</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re anything like me, you worry. You worry you&#8217;ll never be good enough, and that you&#8217;re wasting your time.</p>
<p>Part of me wishes I could sit down at my computer each day and tell myself, &#8220;You rock. You&#8217;re the best. You ARE good enough.&#8221; Thing is, I don&#8217;t believe that kind of attitude is necessarily helpful. In fact, I believe it can be downright harmful.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s why:</p>
<p><strong>When we get cocky, we fall flat on our faces. </strong></p>
<p>Some reasons why being overly confident can be detrimental are:</p>
<h2>You might be deluded about your abilities</h2>
<p>Several months ago, literary agent Nathan Bransford posted <a title="Do You Lack Confidence in Your Writing?" href="http://blog.nathanbransford.com/2010/03/do-you-lack-confidence-in-your-writing.html" target="_blank">a thought-provoking article on the Dunning-Kruger effect</a>.</p>
<p>He says:</p>
<blockquote><p>The basic theory is that when people are incompetent at something they  tend to lack the ability to realize it and they overrate their abilities  relative to others. Meanwhile, people who actually are good at something tend to underrate their abilities and may as a  result suffer from lack of confidence.</p></blockquote>
<p>If you&#8217;re completely confident about your writing abilities, consider that you might be kidding yourself. Even the best writers have room for improvement.</p>
<h2>You&#8217;ll overlook your writing flaws</h2>
<p>If your writing is perfect already, you have nothing to do but sit back, relax, and wait for that publishing house to snap up your manuscript. Right?</p>
<p>Fellow writers might give you feedback on how to make your work better, but you&#8217;ll be unlikely to make any necessary changes if you&#8217;re totally assured it&#8217;s at its best. That means your writing doesn&#8217;t improve.</p>
<p>In the end, you&#8217;re only doing yourself and your writing a disservice.</p>
<h2>You&#8217;ll be less motivated to study the craft of writing</h2>
<p>Sure, you might hear about the overnight success of writers like Stephenie Meyer or J.K. Rowling, but I assure you a great deal of study goes into any writer&#8217;s career. A few authors are lucky enough to discover the magic bestseller formula on the first try, but to repeat that success takes time, practice, and study.</p>
<p>Save yourself a lot of heartache by recognizing the importance of learning about the craft of writing early on.</p>
<h2><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3977" title="cc_hand_writing_book" src="http://www.fuelyourwriting.com/files/cc_hand_writing_book.jpg" alt="cc_hand_writing_book" width="240" height="149" />Others won&#8217;t want to work with you</h2>
<p>Even if you&#8217;re as talented and polished as you think, most writers, agents and editors won&#8217;t be keen on working with you if you&#8217;re not open to suggestions for improvement.</p>
<p>No one enjoys having their writing ripped apart, but using constructive criticism as an opportunity to improve your work automatically makes you a better writer.</p>
<p>Of course, if you alienate others by letting them know you don&#8217;t value their opinions, you won&#8217;t get a whole lot of meaningful feedback.</p>
<h2>Are You Too Confident?</h2>
<p>I think most writers are like me: we&#8217;re cautiously optimistic about having what it takes to get published, but we realize the long, uphill battle we still have ahead.</p>
<p>Still, when we get too close to our work, it&#8217;s sometimes tempting to think our writing is perfect. Taking some time away from your writing is one of the best ways to help you see those flaws you missed the first time around.</p>
<p>So, are you deluding yourself about your abilities as a writer?</p>
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