Writers – Let Yourself Get Distracted!
So you sit down to write, leaving the wireless connection on because you need Thesaurus.com and other such sites. You plan to finish your story, start a story, or maybe write a chapter or two—possibly an article. Hours later, you find yourself with your browser open and you document minimized or covered up. You realize your internet history is longer than your word count could ever hope to be.
It happens to all of us. Distractions.
Love ‘em or hate ‘em, they’re not going anywhere. So why not embrace them?

My editor mentioned two sites that drag her away from her work—Awkward Family Photos and Passive Agressive Notes. Me, I get distracted by all of the horoscopes and numerology and such. I’m waiting for that one day when it all makes perfect sense. Also, I get stuck on Facebook and Twitter for much longer than I should. Networking is great, but I don’t think taking quizzes such as ‘What should your parents have named you?’ get anyone anywhere—no matter what your line of work is.
But the thing is, real-life is what gives us something to write about. I understand the internet isn’t exactly real, but there are benefits to it. Quite a few, actually. So, I’ve decided to let myself get lost in the realm of the world wide web while ideas are brewing without me even knowing.
Everything we see and do affects us as people, and especially as writers. We’ve all heard the expression, “Write what you know,” right? Well, how are we going to know anything if we just sit in front of Word all day long?
I say we let the distractions online suck us in and show us things we wouldn’t have seen otherwise. Maybe even turn on the television and zone out to a mindless sitcom. Allow yourself to view the world in lots of different ways so that you are better educated when you decide that discipline is important and that you must write a certain amount of words before you go to bed.
But don’t work yourself to death. Enjoy yourself and all the craziness in the world. The truth is stranger than fiction, so let that truth come out in your fiction. Some of those truths might just be found in the hilarious captions on Awkward Family Photos. Maybe you’ll even realize one of those family members is your next character. You never know, so don’t be too hard on yourself. Enjoy life, and the words will come when they’re ready.
Since winning her first writing competition, Eden Tyler, has only fallen more in love with the written word. She uses her English and Psychology backgrounds to create depth to her stories while contributing to and running websites about writing. This is what fulfills her, along with working as Co-Editor for FYW, but she also enjoys the freelance work that puts food on the table (and that ever-essential roof overhead) for her family.



Nice post, Eden!
I agree that writers should allow themselves to get distracted now and again – in fact, because the distractions you mention are a form of observation of the human state (if you’re looking for a depressing vantage, check out http://peopleofwalmart.com), it’s kind of what writing is all about.
There are certain aspects of Facebook and other networking sites that stray into the ridiculous – FarmVille, – but I think there’s also an extremely advantage window into people’s lives for the writer. We can peek into people’s backgrounds, see what’s bothering them, see what they do for fun, for a living, and so on.
I’d venture to say social media as a whole is actually a great resource for writers interested in building characters; there are millions of real character profiles out there just waiting to be viewed!
Just remember what you’re goals are while online (find an interesting profession, point of view, real life problem) – maybe creating a list would help you stay somewhat focused while letting yourself get distracted.
:)
Oh, I have to check out the people of Wal-Mart site now!!! More to distract myself with ;)
I agree that we have to keep our goals in mind or else we’ll all end up like I did yesterday—realizing our crops are wilted in FarmVille and spending entirely too much time doing Nothing.. I wrote not a word…. So, yeah, it’s definitely possible to get too distracted!! But today’s a new day and I’ll make up for yesterday =)
Thanks for reading!
-Eden*
Great post Eden, it is true that we writers can get very hard on ourselves when we don’t adhere to our writing, or get distracted too easily. But perhaps if we beat ourselves up too much it will turn the writing process into more of a chore than it should be.
Besides, Awkward Family Photos is one of the funniest sites on the Internet… love it!
Exactly! I don’t want something I love doing to turn into a chore, and at times, that happens. So I find other things to do. I’m lucky enough to have deadlines that I (sort of) set myself and I can work from home. So if I do get off track for a day, it’s much easier to remedy than if I worked a ‘regular’ job in an office..
And yeah, I love that site. Had no clue it existed ’til a couple weeks ago!!
=) Eden